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Inked Brides Rule

01 Saturday Sep 2012

Posted by melissaoconnor in The Bride & Groom

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Inked Brides Rule

When a lot of people think of a beautiful bride they picture a pretty girl in a gorgeous dress looking her best. Pristine as can be. And then there are some who imagine a super rad chick pretty as ever in a unique ensemble they will never forget. This my friends is the inked bride.

I am so happy tattoos are more accepted in todays world, especially for women. Being an inked girl myself, I know how it feels to get stared at, both good and bad looks, as well as questioned and complimented almost everywhere I go. I never really liked the attention but I will admit its nice when others appreciate the work I have on my skin.

When it came to my wedding day, I was told to try to cover up my tattoos as much as I could by some and to show them all off by others. I imagine this is something all inked brides go through. I made sure my skirt was shortened to show some of my leg and even though I wore a long sleeve sweater, it was see through. I would never hide who I am despite what people tell me.

First of all, I don’t get ink to cover it up. That is retarded. So why would I want to cover them up on one of the most important days of my life when I am sharing vows with the one I love, who is also covered in tattoos. I saw an episode of My Fair Wedding last year that really bothered me. This girl looked so cute in her bridal gown, especially with her arms all tatted up. To my surprise, she allowed them to be covered up with makeup which looked ridiculous. Why would she do that! It kind of pissed me off because as soon as she did, she was right back to the girl she was years ago. Not the woman she was now.

Well, here’s to the women who show their skin proudly. I love you all because you are yourselves and that is exactly who you should be on your wedding day. Plain and pristine all go out the window here. Inked brides rule!

Inked Brides Rule
Photo Credit: Allebach Photography

Inked Brides Rule
Image via: The Tales of Missi Mouse

Inked Brides Rule
Photo Credit: Jaime Photography

Inked Brides Rule
Image via: The Rock n’ Roll Bride | Photo Credit: McKinley-Rodgers Photography

Inked Brides Rule
Image via:The Guilty Girls Guide to Weddings

Inked Brides Rule
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Inked Brides Rule
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Image via: The Offbeat Bride  |  Photo Credit: One Oak Photography

Inked Brides Rule
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Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

21 Tuesday Aug 2012

Posted by melissaoconnor in Bridal Party, The Bride & Groom, Weddings

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Just saw some new dresses at Ruche and I must say they are beautiful. Why couldn’t they have these when I was looking! Nevertheless, they are sure to be loved by all you indie brides out there. Here are a few of my faves.

Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

Ruche Proves Indie Brides Rule

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve

20 Monday Aug 2012

Posted by melissaoconnor in Historic Places, The Bride & Groom

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If you feel the need to escape and you live in the Long Island area, then I have got the place for you. I must say I was very surprised by the size of this secret hiding place and suggest that you explore it yourself. The Meroke Preserve, located on the corner of Orange Street and Farmers Avenue, is a wonderful and exciting place to visit. My experience the first time I was there was serene, delightful and inspiring.

Being part of the 3,300 acres of preserves that Nassau County manages, the 25-acre Meroke Preserve is maintained so we may enjoy the natural spaces of Long Island. It’s these areas that really give our communities a sense of organic environment. We should appreciate them because they are the Earth’s gifts to us. Taking care of these preserves is important to keep our history alive. Plus, they are great places for us to take our children so that they see the beauty in their surroundings and learn how vital it is to appreciate nature.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

When you enter the preserve you will be greeted by a sign that says Faith Laursen Meroke Preserve. If you don’t already know, Faith was a former publisher of the Freeport/Baldwin Leader as well the owner of Merrick Life with her husband. From what I read, she was an intelligent caring woman who loved nature and felt it was important to appreciate life. For this reason, the Meroke Preserve was named in her honor. Although she is not here today, the light inside her will continue to shine and give life to all the trees and plants that call Meroke home.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

There were certain trees that held so much character it amazed me. The detailed cuts and aged growths really made me feel like I was not in Kansas anymore.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

As you start your walk through the preserve the trails effortlessly lead you while the trees welcome you quietly. Hearing the birds chirping and the leaves rattle were music to my ears. It was a gorgeous day and the sun lit up the area so brilliantly I was practically seeing through a lens the whole time. It was really hard not to capture all the beauty I was able to witness. Although it was the time for the trees to be quite sparse their was an interesting amount of foliage. Browns, greens and oranges surrounded me creating an autumn rainbow that would soon turn to spring.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

In the middle of my walk I came to a small bridge. As I continued over the bridge I could see a lot of brush up ahead. Eventually the path turned to hectic for me to go on so I turned back. With the stream to my left I walked to the edge and admired the swampy area, the overgrown roots protruding the earth ever so slightly and the moss green as ever. There is so much about nature that is captivating and as I continued on my journey that is proven over and over again.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

The time I had spent at the Meroke Preserve felt like a brief moment in history and I am the lucky one to go back in time. I wound up visiting the preserve once again after that to show my husband, then fiance, the area. I thought it would be an amazing place to have our engagement shoot since it was a natural environment and I had such a magical experience the first time I was there.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Copyright 2012 Melissa O'Connor

Well, once Dan witnessed the awesomeness of this place he agreed and we set it all up with our photographer, Lauren Elle. I can happily say the preserve didn’t let me down. Our experience during the shoot was personal, serene and fun. We were so happy with how the photos came out as well. They clearly show the beauty of the surroundings as well as both our happiness with being engaged. Being surrounded by the Earth felt perfect and we couldn’t ask for anything more.

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Photo by Lauren Elle Photography

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Photo by Lauren Elle Photography

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Photo by Lauren Elle Photography

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Photo by Lauren Elle Photography

Historic Series: The Meroke Preserve - Photo by Lauren Elle Photography

It’s interesting to think that nowadays you can experience a place that has been standing over 100 years. With a bit of the past surrounding you its not hard to let go of any issues or daily struggles you may be dealing with. Breathe in the cool air, feel the sun peaking through the trees and thank Mother Nature for providing yet another beautiful place where you can relax and set your soul free. A new view of the past will always brighten your future.

Wedding Details that Last Forever

13 Monday Aug 2012

Posted by melissaoconnor in Crafty Ideas, The Bride & Groom, Weddings

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Wedding Details that Last Forever

Most brides choose to throw their bouquet at their wedding but since I created mine, I wanted to preserve it for years to come. So I dried the flowers by hanging the bouquet in my basement for 2 weeks. It’s the darkest and driest place in my house. It took me awhile to find a shadow box that was perfect but 2 months later, I found it and couldn’t be happier. It was on sale too!

I laid out my bouquet in the center and dressed it up as it was on my wedding day. Adorned with vintage lace and the key Danny gave me during our engagement. I showcased each of our vows under the bouquet, in their original state, and then added a few more dried flowers from our wedding in the corners along with another small vintage key.

I can’t say enough how much I love my wedding box. I feel every bride should have something like this. Now I can treasure the details of our ceremony forever and have a beautiful memory showcased for all to see.

Wedding Details that Last Forever

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